When was the first time you really felt like a grown up (if ever)?
When care words enter your life with emotions for your youngers and family . And deal your life with responsibility and maturity .
“The gift from God, that I am proud of.
He is my soul, and I am his shadow, we are two parts of one body.
If one makes a mistake, both correct it; if one makes a decision, both walk along with it.
The one who first called me ‘Didi’ (elder sister) and made me feel big, and calling him ‘Bhai’ (brother) brought peace to my heart.
Yes, my younger brother came and made me big, he was the first one to call me Didi, and everyone gets confused about who is the elder one between us 😅. The feeling of being elder only comes from caring for my younger siblings; when they are present, I become the big sister.”
“जो तोहफ़ा भगवान का है, जिस पर मुझे गुरूर है।
वह मेरी रूह है और मैं उसकी परछाई बनकर रहती हूँ, हम एक जिस्म के दो अंग हैं।
ग़लती एक करता है पर सुधारते दोनों हैं, फ़ैसला एक लेता है पर साथ चलते दोनों हैं।
जिसने पहली बार ‘दीदी’ कहकर बड़ा बनाया और ‘भाई’ कहकर दिल को सुकून पाया।
हाँ, मेरे छोटे भाई ने आकर मुझको बड़ा बनाया है, सबसे पहले उसी ने मुझे दीदी कहा और हम दोनों में सब भ्रमित हो जाते हैं कि बड़ा कौन है 😅। मुझको बड़ा होने का एहसास सिर्फ़ देखभाल (caring) करने से ही होता है जब मैं अपने छोटे भाई-बहन की करती हूँ, उनके पास होने पर मैं बड़ी हो जाती हूँ।”
That's mine thought 
Yes, you said it right.
Being complimentary is a great thing. It is natural and nourishes a feeling of caring.
It, nevertheless, is not seen in nuptial relationships. Apart from exceptions, most relations appear false, which are like twining plants that take the help of others to grow but give nothing in return.
What say?
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Yes sir , you say right but ”When you hold a tiny hand and teach a child to walk, you don’t do it with the thought that perhaps that hand will walk with you tomorrow, do you?
Similarly, in relationships, we find solace simply by giving support to certain bonds, without expecting anything in return.”
And ”When a plant grows, it is show our hard work that is successful and it’s shown beautiful today when i see .
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As I said earlier, your views are correct. Yet, a pinch of suspicion is essential. In today’s time, there is a cry and clamour, and relationships are becoming strained. It becomes all the more important to be sparse and free from expectations.
Today I have posted a piece, discussing it at length. Please go through it, if you feel like. Please let me know what you think about it.
Emotions are good but being gullible is absolutely not good. Sage Chanskya has also said it. I think, you probably agree to it.
Thanks a lot for your input.
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Thanku sir and yes your words totally true considering today’s times .
Ji sir i read 📖 your thoughts i think i learn something new today thanku for sharing sir 😇🙏.
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It is good that you liked the piece. Hearty thanks.
We are the guests in the mundane world. The goal should be to continually evolve by learning and absorbing new knowledge.
Thanks again.🙏
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True sir 😇🙏 .
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